Weddings
Elopements by the sea
Penally Abbey is the most enchanting place to get married with its stunning sea views, beautiful architecture and magical gardens.
Set on a hillside with views across the sea and Tenby, it’s a hidden gem in Wales, perfect for couples looking to get married in a relaxed and personal way.
Whatever the season, Penally has its own kind of magic. In winter, the log fires crackle and the Courtyard glows under a 12-foot real Christmas tree. In spring and summer, the gardens burst into bloom and the sea breeze drifts through the hotel. It’s peaceful, beautiful, and romantic.
Enquire about an elopement
Witnesses & Guests
If you’re planning a truly private ceremony, we’re happy to provide witnesses. But if you’d prefer to bring your own, you’re welcome to invite up to 6 people (8 people in total including the wedding couple).
To make it official, you’ll need to book the Pembrokeshire registrars separately — they’ll need to be available on your chosen date, and their fee is additional to our pricing.
Intimate, Personal and Unique
Ceremonies take place in our private Courtyard — a truly special space tucked away from the world. After saying “I do,” you’re welcome to enjoy drinks in the garden, the drawing room, or the bar overlooking the coast. Then, enjoy a celebratory dinner or a relaxed afternoon tea in our Rhosyn Restaurant.
We can even transform the Courtyard into a candlelit setting for a private dinner, just for two.
A Guide to the Day
After years of hosting beautiful elopements and intimate weddings, we’ve found a few timings that work wonderfully.
Ceremony Only
Hire of the Courtyard for a one-hour ceremony (between 10 am – 4 pm)
Use of the hotel and grounds for photos for one hour after the ceremony.
Perfect if you’re heading off to celebrate elsewhere afterwards.
Ceremony, Food & Drinks
Some lovely combinations that couples love:
2pm Ceremony | 3pm Afternoon Tea
4pm Ceremony | 4:30pm Drinks | 6pm (or later) Dinner
Pricing
Elopement in the Courtyard – £1,800
What’s included:
Exclusive hire of the Courtyard for your ceremony (includes the bar and outdoor areas)
Simple but beautiful styling with pillar and taper candles
A selection of simple, seasonal flowers
Witnesses if needed
All ceremony furniture (chairs, tables, etc.)
Use of the hotel and grounds for photos for up to an hour after the ceremony
A dedicated friendly member of our team to be with you on the day, play your chosen music and help with the ceremony details and planning
What’s not included:
Registrar fees
Room bookings
Food or drinks (we can add these to your bill depending on what you’d like)
Extra flowers, bouquets, buttonholes, or additional décor
Please note that we do not host 'wedding venue viewings' for elopements until the date is booked. You're more than welcome to book in for Afternoon Tea or pop by between 10am - 3pm to take a look at the Courtyard. There may not be someone available to show you around and there may be events taking place, but we will always try and welcome you where and when we can.
If you're dreaming of something small but beautiful, Penally Abbey is ready to help you make it happen — effortlessly elegant, relaxed and deeply personal.
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01834 843033
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